Most people would agree that getting out there and dating after a breakup is rarely fun. Don’t you think it’s time to change that attitude for the better? Isn’t it up to you to make it fun?
Put a positive spin on it. Think of it as your chance to be able to do things you haven’t done in a while. It could be a great opportunity to check out spots in the city you haven’t been before. Is there a new bar you’ve heard so much about but haven’t gotten around to visiting? Now’s your chance. Have you always wanted to go on a pizza quest around the city but didn’t have someone to do it with? Visit every pizza place you know every time you have a first date.
How much fun you have on a date is really up to you. Think of it as your personal super power and try to think of different ways you can create the most awesome dates with. Not a lot of people realize it, but you can sometimes have fun just by planning.
It might be strange, but some have an awesome time thinking of ways to have an awesome time. And the great thing about it is that when you have fun planning it, you know you’re going to have fun doing it. And when you know you’re going to have fun, your date can tell and it can rub off on them. So, how do you make your date fun?
The first, and most important, rule of making it fun is to choose something that is likely to be fun for the both of you. This means you’ll need to get to know a little something about your date before you go out.
You don’t want to set your first date cliff diving if your date’s terrified of heights. You don’t want to plan a date around trying out steak houses if she’s a vegetarian. Find out what makes her tick – her like, dislikes, basic allergies. Then match the things from your own list of interests, see if there are things you have in common, and plan a unique date based on what you both are into.
If the date’s as fun as it’s going to be if you plan it right, you won’t need to try as much. The situation will help you make her feel comfortable. She won’t be counting the minutes till she can politely ask to be taken home. In fact, she might even feel reluctant to be taken home.
And you don’t even have to spend all your savings just to create the perfect date. There are a million different choices to make things fun and interesting that can fit a limited budget. For your second date, you can even go for activities that don’t cost a thing (of course, if you want there to be a second date, you need to spend bit more on the first).
When you’re not over your ex girlfriend though it can be a little bittersweet. Are you sure you don’t want to get your ex girlfriend back? I can help you with that if you do. Start with step one I teach in this free video: http://www.magicofmakingup.com and see how fast you get her attention.
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