NLP and seduction have long been associated with each other. Nero Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a term used to describe the way in which our brains adhere to specific patterns of communication dependent on our personality type. Once we can begin to understand these patterns, triggers and Meta models, we can use them to our advantage whilst communicating with women.
Seduction is merely the process of being able to clearly communicate our intent to women whilst utilizing the correct techniques to ensure the woman remains receptive to the possibility of aligning and harmonizing with our intentions.
This is the reason that seduction is enhanced by NLP. When a man can swiftly access the true meaning within a woman’s communications he becomes capable of changing the results of an interaction.
People adopt a certain type of representational system whilst communicating and primarily use one of four possible systems dependent on their personality type. The four representational systems are classified as audio, visual, olfactory and kinesthetic. When a man communicates with a woman whilst adopting her representational system to do so, he can build a connection with her much sooner than if he was to ignore this conversational dynamic.
Someone who is operating through the lens of a visual system will often communicate using terminology associated with vision. A typical example might be, “Try to picture what I’m saying here. As soon as you can envision what I mean you’ll probably change your view point. Then you’ll be able to see what I mean”
If you practice a touch, it can become very easy to converse with women whilst employing the same representational system as they are using when you communicate and flirt with them.
A woman who uses an audio representational system would often use statements such as, “I just like the sound of it. I knew it was a good idea as soon as I heard it so immediately I tuned in. It was like music to my ears”
A kinesthetic representational system sounds like, “I don’t know why he felt so bad because I only just touched on the subject ever so lightly. Obviously he hadn’t warmed up to the idea or it just didn’t feel right for him”
The use of the olfactory system as a representational system hierarchy is quiet rare as most people are visual, kinesthetic or audio. An olfactory example is, “It was a really bitter and cold day but the way he thought about bringing a jumper along for me was really tastefully done”
Now that you can understand and identify the different preferred representational systems that women use you’ll be able to easily adopt the same system at will, and increase the quality of your connection with women. A communication breakdown on a very subliminal level can be found in the following example.
If a woman was communicating with you and she said, “I like the look of that place and I can picture myself going there someday”, she would be classified as a ‘visual’. If a man was to respond using the ‘audio’ system with something like, “That does sound good. It’s got a good vibe and it seems nice and peaceful like you could just tune out. I hear you and its quiet a good idea, I must say”
Although the man is agreeing with the woman in the above example, to her it still seems like he is speaking a different language. It will rub her the wrong way at a subconscious level and she won’t feel totally connected to him. However, if the man responded with, “I can see what you mean, that does look good. I too could definitely visualize myself going there”, the outcome would be a lot different and the woman would be more at ease around the man.
Paying attention to a woman’s preferred representational system whilst interacting and flirting with her can assist you to build a stronger connection. Women will naturally feel more relaxed around you if you take advantage of this simple dynamic within your conversations.
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