Getting a kiss on the first date isn’t automatic. If you want that first kiss, you need to make sure that you set up the right conditions. You’ll need a little privacy, but nothing too secluded because you don’t want your date to be uncomfortable.
Public places like restaurants and clubs are a little public for a first kiss no matter how romantic the atmosphere. Your car is probably not great either, especially if it has bucket seats.
Wherever you chose to stage your first kiss, you want it to me memorable, and not because it was a bad idea. Here are some tips on how to get kissed and get a second date.
1. The right moment doesn’t just happen, although you’ll want her to think it did. A nice dinner near the beach or a well lit park calls for a pleasant walk afterwards. Just the two of you on a walk makes for a great opportunity.
Your car is not the ideal location for your first kiss, unless you have a convertible and you park in a romantic spot. An area that is too secluded may make your date uncomfortable.
2. Never pressure your date for more than she is willing to give. Watch for her signals. If she is comfortable holding your hand, or having you take her arm she will probably be okay with a kiss.
Just the same, in order for you to build that intimacy, you must play your role well in conversations. Make sure that you open up to her and that she does the same with you. You can take the extra step of attempting to hold her hand or elbows in a non-sexual way.
A display of good manners with non sexual touching will set your date at ease and help set the stage for that first kiss.
3. If you aren’t sure she wants to be kissed, ask her. Asking permission to touch a woman shows that you respect her and her feelings. It also allows the woman to feel in control of the situation.
If your evening was a complete disaster, don’t count on getting a kiss unless the lady has a great sense of humor. If your date can see the fun in the event or if she feels sorry for you, you may want to hang onto her. She’s definitely a keeper.
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