Many a guy has been at a nightclub, seen a hot girl and thought, “Wow! She really works those boobies, bouncy bouncy.”
Next, he chugged down some liquid courage and strutted up to her. But within a blink of an eye, she shot him down.
He scurried off with the imperative of a gazelle that knows it’s minutes away from becoming a lion’s dinner.
Maybe you’ve had a similar experience? I’ve had dozens. I used to be so petrified to pick up women that I thought I had the words “I’m the world’s biggest loser” push pinned to my forehead.
If you never learned how to pick up women, then doing so can seem more challenging than climbing Mt. Everest.
Realize this: We approach women in the wake of their cuteness – and they know it. Without them uttering a single word, they hook us in.
Half the time, even if you find them as sexy as a hemorrhoid , they’ll still think you’re trying to pick up on them.
But this, my friend, is about to change…
Watching most men approach an attractive woman is as depressing as a costume ball for demented children. The woman is like a pro fisherman with top notch bait and the guy is like a poor little fish, soon to be chopped up, fried, and eaten for dinner.
He may still have some fight in him. But, alas, he doesn’t have a chance. (However, if she sees him as a piece of female eye-candy, there may be a glimmer of hope.)
I’m also a fish – but an F-ed up, twisted, alien barracuda. Just when they feel that they have me on their hook I start throwing bait at them.
They clamp their chompers down on the bait and my hook slides in – they’re trapped.
Let’s look at an example. When at a bar, I’ll stand in a high-traffic area – e.g., near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio. When a girl walks by I’ll jut out my elbow making it next to impossible for her to avoid bumping into it.
And then in an overdramatic and offended tone I’ll utter: “Ow…you hurt me.”
Ninety-seven percent of the time, women will stick their hand out to touch me and apologize with some variant of, “Oh my… I’m so sorry.”
I’ll usually shoot back with, “You can touch me but…only if you tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.”
This not only hooks the woman into an interaction with you but also builds sexual tension.
When the average man’s groin fills with lust for a sexy vixen, he starts coming up with ways to win her over.
Put simply, she has them emotionally hooked and she knows it. Just about anything they do to impress her, is a sign she is reeling them in even closer.
With my example above, however, I’m doing the opposite. Instead of me proving myself to her, I’m making her prove herself to me. I’m the sought after Prize, not her.
In every male/female interaction only one person can be the Prize at a given time. Two people can’t simultaneously chase each other.
You need to put yourself in the role of the Prize and the woman in role of the suitor working to win you over.
Josh Lubens, a world renowned relationship expert, writes under the penname Swinggcat and has taught men how to pick up women for over a decade. On his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.
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