Ladies are actually quite easy to buy for. If you get them almost anything and package it with love, they will generally love it. Chocolate, candy, flowers, stuffed animals, perfume, heart jewelry, etc. Yes, they will love almost anything you can dig up if it is given in the spirit of true romance and love. Having said that, is this the present that they really want to receive? That is the question!
The basic key to the whole “gift-giving” process is to listen, and I mean listen intently, to what they are telling you. In the words they are speaking are those very precious hidden gems that can translate big into that perfect present. She will probably not tell you directly what she wants though…that would be a bit too easy now don’t you think? You will have to use your noggin (along with what they are telling you) to resolve this problem. You might actually need to use your memory skills on this one. They could be telling you in early February what would be the perfect gift once their graduation in June rolls around.
If your memory is not what it used to be, then be sure to take a pad of paper and a pen with you. In this way you will be able to take notes that are those invaluable memory joggers once the time comes. Besides her words, notice what she uses to comfort herself…things like sweets or books or CD’s. In these gems you will find your gifts.
Remember to always keep this simple idea in mind. When she goes through a magazine or book does she often show you a picture or image and say how “cute” or “sweet” this looks? Quick! Now is the perfect time to get out that pad of paper and pen to write it all down. When you go to a good friend’s house or are in a shopping mall, does she often pick up something and say how wonderful it is? Get out that pad of paper one more time so you can record it for later.
Now that wasn’t too bad was it? If you keep these simple ideas in mind you will be able to get her just exactly what she wants the next time that special “gift-giving” occasion rolls around.
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