You’ve probably learned the hard ways to tell if he’s really not that into you. When you’re dating after a breakup, how can you tell, after all this time, if the new man in your life really is that into you?
The first thing you’ll need to do is look for these tell-tale signs that you have his interest. If you notice one or more of these signs, chances are that he is into you and a second date could definitely be in your future.
First sign he’s into you is if he invites discussion. Not a heated debate, but a nice exchange of ideas and experiences. If he’s only answering whatever question you throw, and he’s not volunteering anything about him, then the signal he’s sending is he’s not interested in you. However, if he asks you to talk more about yourself, and tells you about himself as well, then he probably wants to take you out again.
Another sign that he’s really into you is that he leans in closer when you’re talking. This lets you know he’s really interested in what you have to say. It’s an even bigger indicator than participating in the conversation. Body language often speaks louder than words. Listen to what his body is telling you and go with the flow if you’re feeling a little interest on your side.
Third sign: he maintains eye-contact. Uninterested guys look at everything else except you. However, if he can’t seem to look you in the eye, but he sends out the two other signs, then maybe your date is just nervous. Now, if he encourages conversation, leans when you talk, and looks you in the eye, then there’s no doubt he’s into you. Tough world, dating, isn’t it?
Now here are two signs you don’t want to see him give out during a first date – signs he’s not into you and would rather go home.
1. He talks about his ex. If a guy can’t seem to stop talking about his ex during a date – whether positively or negatively – it means he’s not over the girl yet. Not only that, he’s also insensitive. You’re with him and deserve his attention, but he still chooses to talk about the one that got away (his opinion). Don’t worry. It’s not you, it’s him.
2) He’s constantly checking his watch. This is a sure sign that he’s not having fun and waiting for the appropriate time to call it a night. If this isn’t the case, then maybe he’s just too busy to work in dating and you’re better off without him anyway.
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