Flirting with girls is fun. But it doesn’t have to be mysterious. Here are three main ways to flirt wtih women.
Being proactive is nice. You can just say or do something flirty out of the blue.
Alternatively, you can appear to be much more spontaneous by waiting for her to say something that you are ready for, and then shooting back a flirty response that takes them by surprise.
You can also do a two-step process. First, bait them into saying something that triggers one of your preselected banter lines. Then wait for their response. Then give them the line.
Now, let’s look at some specific ways you can do these things:
PROACTIVE FLIRTING: This is when you initiate some flirtatious behavior or banter. You might bump into her, or look at her funny, or call her a silly name, or make a playfully arrogant statement about yourself. Active flirting can be very effective, if she’s in a receptive frame of mind.
TRIGGER BANTER: Trigger banter is basically this: you wait for a situation to happen. For instance, she could say or do something. then you deliver a flirty line that you’ve already prepared for situations like this. You can also just respond to her spontaneously. But it’s easier to be prepared. Here’s an example. Suppose she bends down to tie her shoe near you. You could say “Oh, you don’t have to bow down before me like that. There are other ways to show your appreciation [smile]“. The downside is that she doesn’t always say or do things that match your pre-planned responses.
TWO-PART BANTER: You can deliver lines that look spontaneous, but which are actually set up. You simply take one of your lines from the previous category, and create the situation that triggers the line. How migh that look? Well, suppose whenever a woman asks you what kind of car you drive, you have this funny routine about some crazy car that no one would ever drive. Instead of waiting for her to ask about your car, you could mention off-hand that your car needs to go into the shop or something. She should bite. If not, keep trying to bait her. And you can do similar things for all your pre-planned banter. If you have a lot of passive banter prepared for many situations, this is a surefire way to be able to show off your highly advanced flirting skills.
Those are three great ways to engage a woman in playful banter. You can read more about all of them in the “Flirting Deconstructed”.
Tyler Paxon Ph.D. is the founder of the How To Flirt website. Take his free quiz at http://how2flirt.com
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