Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most amazingly simple thing that we can ask when we are on a first date with someone. You just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview! Questions are the best way to get to know someone and show them we are interested in them. On a first date you just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview!
Dale Carnegie in his best-selling book, “How to win friends and influence people” writes about the benefit of asking questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
Have you ever been to a party and you have been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you are a guy and ask careful questions from a lady, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.
If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because people who’re genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here are 21 questions to ask to get the conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.
Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl to get you started
1. If you’re a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What was your favourite Halloween dress up costume as a child and why?
3. If you were to choose five people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?
4. If in an instant you could become an invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone made a funny comedy movie about your life, which part of the story would be the funniest and why?
6. What was your most favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them and why?
7. If you had a chance to go back in time and do something that you feel you should have done what would that be?
8. What’s the funniest experience in your whole entire life?
9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?
10. What age were you when you had your first proper date and did you get to kiss them?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you instantly turned into a woman just for a day, what would you do with your day and why?
13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman – intelligence, a good body or good looks?
And now let’s get a little risqu! You may have to have a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever been caught stark naked in a public place – if so what were you doing?
16. What’s the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you on sexual the most and why?
19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?
20. Have you ever been caught masturbating? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?
21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time?
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